Friendship. What does it mean? What is its greatest motivation? What is its greatest expression? Friendship is almost always experienced as a circle. It is a relationship of equals and of mutuality, of accompaniment and of solidarity.
Friendships are based on decisions. We choose our friends. Friendships are neither based on emotions nor on relations.
Agape is always a decision. It is always a choice. Agape is neither based on emotions nor on relations.
Thus, agape's greatest expression: no one has greater love than this, to lay down one's life for one's friends. Not lovers. Nor family. We choose to offer our lives for the people we choose. Including those who do not know who we are.
Jesus did. Many have done the same. How about us who call ourselves Friends of Jesus? Can we? Really?
*art, "Love for One's Neighbor," National Museum of Scotland (vanderbilt divinity library digital archives).
