Taking care of the least is a major theme in Matthew’s Gospel. Matthew 18 makes this especially clear. Jesus places a child in the midst of the disciples and warns against causing “little ones” to stumble. He speaks of the shepherd who searches for one lost sheep. He then teaches the community how to respond when one member sins against another. His teaching echoes Deuteronomy 19:15.
Children are God's “little ones.” When a child is abused, neglected, bullied, exploited, or silenced, the child is not merely a problem to be managed. The child is the very person Jesus places at the center. The child is the one the community is commanded to protect.
This changes how we understand Jesus’ teaching about confronting sin. When someone is harmed, the burden should not fall on the wounded person. The offender is given opportunities to listen, repent, make amends, and change. First, one person speaks. Then two or three. Finally, the whole community becomes involved. The movement is toward truth, restoration, and justice—but never, ever, at the expense of the vulnerable.
This is where the church must refuse false neutrality. When a child says, “I have been hurt,” our first response cannot be, “Are you sure?” “Maybe you misunderstood.” "You are over-reacting." "It was only a joke." “Think of his family.” “Think of the Church.” Such responses silence the child and protect the powerful.
Unfortunately, the church and its institutions, including seminaries, have a history of protecting the powerful and the privileged.
We listen to men more than we do women. We reserve the best spaces for the rich rather than the poor. We believe adults more than we do children. Many times, we protect the oppressor instead of the oppressed. More often than not we take the side of the offender over the offended.
In reality, we are the two or three or more who gang up on the little ones to force them to withdraw their complaints in order to protect the integrity of our institutions. Many times we are the two or three who force the victims to forgive their oppressors because their oppressors have already asked God for forgiveness.
Recent studies on teen pregnancies in the Philippines show that adult men are responsible for pregnancies of girls 10-14 years old. Under the law this is considered statutory rape.
Jesus calls us to become the “two or three” who stand beside the little ones. To listen. To believe. To seek truth. To establish safety. To hold offenders accountable. To create spaces where children can speak without fear and where adults understand that authority is a responsibility, never a license to harm. Or a perk of entitlement.
Jesus goes after the lost sheep. He welcomes the little ones. He binds and loosens for the sake of a community transformed by justice and mercy.
So let us take a stand. Let us be the second and third person who makes “two or three”—and then many more. Let us stand against abuse, exploitation, discrimination, harassment, rape, violence, and every culture of impunity.
Where the vulnerable are cared for, Jesus is present. Where two or three gather to protect the little ones, Jesus is always present.
*image from heartlightdotorg.
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